Sunday, December 11, 2011

How do u play hard to get?

Okay,theres this guy at my school,I really like him, but he told me he doesnt do relationships.Well, I wanna break that,and be the girl he goes out with.I think i made a big mistake by kissing him already.But,i still need some advice.plz and thnxHow do u play hard to get?
Hard to get will be pretty hard to do if you kissed the guy.How do u play hard to get?
hahah. umm yeah . yur so hard to get that ima kiss yu. pshh. blew yur cover thur. i mean when guys say they arent good at relationships then i wud listen. trust me ik. ima guy. usually its because they are actually trying to keep yu from getting hurt. cuss hes prob a hump em and dump em dude. which is f*cked up. butt whatt yaa gunnaa dooo. talk to him. get deeperr into whyy he doesnt do relationships. see what ya get.
umm dont. dont play hard to get. dont try to change him. dont concern yourself with him if hes not interested.
you cant play hard to get if you already kissed him
Easy. Don't give him attention when he obviously wants it. Don't act snobby, but act like you're busy with other things so that you can't give him all your attention
how can you play hard to get when you are going to try to convince him to date you???

Hard working director of a failing cast up for drama exam next week. what should i do?

We're five girls performing a diminutive adaptation of Spring Awakening for our semester exam on Feb 23. We're college juniors (3rd yr univ) for Performing Arts major. If this sounds familiar, I did ask this question last week but now there are new developments.



The exam is next week. I'm doing all the work like writing and rewriting scripts, training, editing music, and gathering the props. I'm playing Wendla (the lead character) and directing. The girl playing Anna is the only one who shows up at practice, but she doesn't work well when the cast isn't complete. The girl playing Martha went home interstate for Chinese New Year because it's the only time of the year she gets to see her parents. The girl playing Ilse has IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) and often misses practices due to sickness; but she never misses work teaching ballet classes. The girl playing Frau Bergmann is working for her mother in law's business, has marriage and financial problems, and is simply not in shape for performing the exam.



Recently I dismissed Frau Bergmann from the team for her uncooperative behaviour and rewrote the script. She protested, said that I wasn't being fair for firing her instead of Martha, who is away. I told Frau that's because Martha had permission and we have planned to work around that; whereas Frau wasn't picking up nor returning phone calls, doesn't text unless she needs to vent out her personal problems, and she doesn't practice in her own time.



I was supposed to talk to Frau privately today to make sure that we're kicking her out not grudgingly but to lift some weight off her and free her to deal with her personal problems first. To avoid misunderstanding, I didn't want to do it by phone or email so the earliest I could see her in person was today. However, Ilse already told Frau over the weekend that I no longer like her and want her out, so Frau wouldn't listen to any explanations from me and called Anna in front of me to ask her what I had told her. Frau also managed to talk to the lecturer before I did, so the lecturer ordered me to not kick her out.



Now I want to kick out Ilse for not respecting my prerogative for communicating decisions, and this has messed up what little harmony was left in the group. Ilse has been missing practice as much as Frau has, but the only reason why I saved her was because she turned up last Friday when I issued her the final warning. Frau did not come but sent me 10 text messages with all her excuses, so she's dismissed, no questions asked. I gave Ilse another chance and she blew it.



I need to communicate this to Ilse now because time is running out, but she is not picking up the phone. Today the doctor ordered total bed rest for her.



Martha and Anna are waiting for the new, 4 actor version of the script to be e-mailed. However, since Ilse is no longer part of the team (none of these girls know yet), I think I should be modifying the script again to a 3 actor version. Should I email the 4 actor version anyway and apologise for additional modifications once we get to 3 actors? Or should I just email the 3 actor version and explain everything later?



How do I make sure there's no hard feelings? All four girls, including Ilse and Frau are very good friends of mine, but I have to be fair with the teamwork. We're very tight knit; I just don't want this decision to create a rift in our friendship because this is like me pushing them off the cliff to fail the semester and re-enroll next year. Also, I don't want Martha and Anna to be intimidated by me and hate me for doing this to two of our best friends. Sure, I can explain to Anna in person tomorrow, but I won't be able to explain to Martha until she comes back on D-Day!



And finally, how do I convince the lecturer to accept my decision? She's insisting that I should keep Ilse and Frau because in the real world I will work with difficult people, and the unity of the team is part of the tests will have to pass. This exam is no exception. But I disagree, because if actors in Broadway treat rehearsals the way Ilse or Frau do, I'm sure they'd be fired right away and the director would either replace them with new actors or write out their characters altogether; because it is the director's job to ensure that the show goes on no matter what.



Please help. Thanks in advance.Hard working director of a failing cast up for drama exam next week. what should i do?
ahh, it's always difficult to work with an uncooperative team. what i do is get the whole group together, if you're friends, not to work, but just to meet, maybe at a coffee shop or something to talk, and hang out. just to show that you are all friends. and then maybe you can ask them to listen to speaking, and explain to them how you've been working really hard, and you feel that it is not fair that they are all dropping out on you, it is alot of work to keep adapting a script, and you would love if you all could work together. then say, however since this is an exam, and it is importnat, you did what you did for a reason, and explain the reasons in such a way that it seems like you were thinking about them like with Frau, how its best she figure out things for herself, and IIse to take care of her health.. like you are thinking about it for them, as opposed to doing this for you.

if you coudl talk to all of them, and get them allll on the same page, and then say that you will go talk to the lecturer, and explain the situation.

yes, i think you are absolutley right if this was any other director they would have fired them, i know the director of my school play surely would have, you get kicked out for missing 3 rehearsals maximum without valid reason..so don't forgot to explain to them this career path is a commitment, and that its a cooperative thing.

if they cant all get together and meet. then email them and explain to them, so that everybody reads it, and maybe even CC it to the lecturer. its less personal, but then they'll have time to read %26amp; reflect.. or even give them letters (weird but it worked for me once!) so that thtye just understand whats happenin..



as for emailing the script. if you are sure that it is a 3 people script. then email that out, you dont want to leave the option open, explain later, you are the director after-all, it is your call, and as far as i see it, it is a valid call.



good luck :) i hope this helped even a little.. (:
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  • How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, shy, or playing hard to get after a first date?

    Went out with a girl on Sunday for the first time. We decided to meet at 3:00 at the nearby coffee shop (she arrived just before I did). We had a good ';getting to know you'; conversation. She was kind of quiet, didn't ask too many questions, but for the most part her body language was good (maintained eye contact, smile, playing with her hair). The date ended about an hour later when she said she had to get going. We walk outside and she asked for a hug, which I gave her. I told her I'd like to see her again, and she answered ';you have my number.'; I called Wed. night...it rang twice, and then went to voicemail. Left msg. asking her to call back. No call back yet (it's friday now). Before the first date, she was quick to respond to e-mail/text msg. She seems kind of shy, and I THINK she is playing hard to get. If this is the case, how can I call her out on this? Also should I call, email, or text? Thank you everyone in advance for some good answers.How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, shy, or playing hard to get after a first date?
    Don't play games, if you really liked her, just try calling her again. Sometimes, miscommunication can mess up a good thing. I wouldn't text or email her, that's too much, especially if you've only been on 1 date. If she doesn't call you back again, then get the hint.How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, shy, or playing hard to get after a first date?
    play hard to get back dont call her again if she doesnt call you back after a week then ring her but if she still doesnt pick up or return the call then you know shes not interested
    go for it. she likes you.
    Hmmm . . . I would call her one more time and then give up.
    don't contact her again...you've got to get her to think about you. No more contact till she calls, when she does, make her wait a couple of days before you call her back

    How to tell if a girl likes you, but is playing hard to get?

    This girl I know, and like seems to be driving up my street a lot, prank calling me using *67, but the thing is, she wants to insist Im stalking her, but she's the only one doing any pursuing.



    This girl knows I like her, and I did try to hook up with her back last fall, but she wouldnt go anywhere. I didnt see this girl for months because she was at college, but she showed back up as soon as the summer hit and she was back in town.



    She wont admit to liking be, and insist that she doesnt, but she acts immature when around me.



    What are the signs of playing hard to get?How to tell if a girl likes you, but is playing hard to get?
    If a person is really that into you, he or she will move a mountain if that is what is standing between them and a phone. I have had perfect strangers borrow my cell phone to call and let someone know that they can鈥檛 call or talk as they鈥檇 promised.



    So how do you tell common ';playing hard to get'; behaviours from 鈥渘ot interested'; behaviours. These are just five major differences in behaviours:



    1. The person 鈥減laying hard to get'; often has many other men or women interested in him or her but while it hard for you to get him or her, it even harder for your competition. You get a clear message that he or she likes you more and is willing to be 鈥渃aught';. With the person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand, you are not even sure they like you.



    2. While a person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will continue to be very open and approachable and available he or she will be hard to nail down. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand though he or she may have been very open and approachable and available initially will suddenly seem distant and unreachable.



    3. A person playing hard to get will call when or she says they will call mainly because they care about how you feel and are careful not to hurt your feelings and consequently drive you away. The one 鈥渘ot interested'; just thinks of him or herself. Period.



    4. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will cancel a date and usually has plausible reasons. S/he also makes sure to reschedule and already has a date, place and time in mind. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; if s/he calls at all will leave you unsure when you will next speak or see him or her.



    5. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; makes a real effort to get to know you as a person: asks personal questions about you, your work, your family or your day. He or she remembers things you say and let you know that they do. A person 鈥渘ot interested'; may keep in contact but asks no personal questions about you and avoids any personal questions about themselves. If he or she is lonely and just enjoying the attention, you find yourself in the role of adviser, counsellor, coach or purely social support. Once they find someone else to lean on, they move on without any guilt or shame about using you.

    How do you get a date with a girl that thinks she is God, plays hard to get, and is conceited and flaky?

    You don't bother with girls like that. They will never feel you, no matter how much you want them to. Didn't I tell you once about not stalking this girl?How do you get a date with a girl that thinks she is God, plays hard to get, and is conceited and flaky?
    leave her alone.How do you get a date with a girl that thinks she is God, plays hard to get, and is conceited and flaky?
    if a girl is not into you and she is not, no matter how many thing you done,you just messing up am i right ? the time will come,try being cool ~~this will help,but go of it!!!!!! you will get her ~
    If you really want her then don't give up! Tell her how you feel and if it's meant to be it will be and you will be happy. If she's too uppity then it's not worth it. Move on.
    don't be annoying, girls HATE it when you oconstantly hint to them that you like them and you don't see that they aren't interested. you shouldn't even go for someone like that anyway? do you really want to be in a relationship that's about ONE person instead of two?move on.. or ignore her for a couple weeks and ask her to a party so she thinks its as friends and she's kind of forced to see the fun side of you.
    Why the hell would you want to date a girl like that? She will berate you, ditch you, and make you feel like you owe her something. If you really mean ';How do you bang a hot, stuck-up *****';, then just play to her ego and be slave-like.
    Don't waste your time. If you know these things about her now it will only end badly. Stop thinking with your d*ck man!
    I wouldn't even bother. I know that's not the answer you wanted to hear but... you could do so much better. Just keep trying and be her friend first then go from there.
    if she likes you shell like you for who you are a conceited person is even like that!
    I would break her... in another way

    That kind of people really annoy me
    Don't waste your time.



    If she REALLY does mean that much to you, you can only keep doing what your doing to win her over mate.

    Help! I have major girl problems!?

    The situation I've gotten myself into is a peculiar one, and I feel absolutely horrible about it. There are 3 girls that currently have feelings for me, and I have feelings for each of these three girls, but I am not dating either one of them. I want to, however, date one of these girls, but I am not sure which one as of yet. Girl A is my ex, who recently dumped me for her ex, but wants to get back together with me after seeing how her ex treated her. Girl B is one of my close friends. I have the strongest feelings for this girl, but she is 14 whereas I am 18, her parents would strongly disapprove, and it would be very very hard to see her. Girl C is my close friends best friend, and I like her very much. She is the furthest away, however, but she is the one that I would pick if I had to pick right now because she has a mix of both of the two previous girls and brings an extra niceness along with her. If it helps any, Girl A and Girl B know about Girl C, Girl B knows about Girl A, Girl C doesn't know about GIrl A or Girl B, and Girl A doesn't know about Girl B. Help please? I promise also I am not trying to play these girls, and if I am, it isn't on purpose!Help! I have major girl problems!?
    be with the one you want to be with. (sounds like girl c to me) and if she likes you back, no need to tell her about the others. as long as she's the one you want.Help! I have major girl problems!?
    don't ask any of them! Find some other girl that has no relationship to the other girls!
    Have sex with all 3 at once
    flip a coin or eenie meenie myni moe

    whichever girl your hoping it is, is the one you should date
    give C a try
    I think you know the answer. Leave your ex an ex, your friends friends and look for someone completely new and exciting.
    Girl A and Girl B know about Girl C, Girl B knows about Girl A, Girl C doesn't know about GIrl A or Girl B, and Girl A doesn't know about Girl B.



    hahahaha do what? I think that you just need to pick one...I would go with ';girl C'; because she seems like the one that you know in your gut that you want to be with. Keep the other ones in mind, and if C doesn't work out, go from there. You might be playing them but not like seriously. It is fine :)
    Well. It's good that you didn't consider all three as an option. Go you!



    Girl B I think is a bit inappropriate. Girl A sounds dangerous and untrustworthy. Makes you sound like a rebound. Therefore, I would go with Girl C. She really seems the best out of them.



    Hope I helped. :D
    Choose girl C!!!
    For sure get Girl A out of the picture. She's your ex, and she's the one who dumped you...? And she's just going back to you like you're a sidedish.



    And if you have the strongest feelings for Girl B, then I think you should go fo her =) and for Girl C... just stay friends with her because, long distance relationships never work out... really.



    Hope I helped, haha.
    Pick girl C

    A has already burned you once

    B is illegal
    go with girl C because its nto like u can really have the choice of dating girl B and girl A already had a chance. its whats best
    i know this is probably hard to do, but dont date either of them i say this because sooner or later the other girl would find out that your dating the other girl and be mad. by dating one of them your going to get yourself tied up in a big knot and it'll be very hard to untangle yourself.
    It sound like you like girl B the most, and I know there is a big age difference, but if shes the one you have the most feelings for I would go with her.

    Maybe talk to her parents and tell them that you understand that the age difference concerns them, and that you realize they only want to protect her, but you really like who she is as a person. Tell them that you are willing to date by their rules, and if they want you guys to have at home dates, like watching movies or something you completely understand. You should be able to do whatever to be with the one you love.
    no one has time to read such a stupid long question
    Pick Girl C, you shouldn't go out with girls on the rebound, and you shouldn't go out with girls wayy younger than you.
    whao buddy your nutz!!!
    wow man u are in there deep. try to go for girl B or C. Girl A already dumped u so way get back together with her if she dumped u. U probably knew she would come crawling back to u though righ. lol
    Wow, this is really confusing. Well, the way i see it, u should date Girl B. U said so that u have the strongest feelings for her. U know, in relationship, nothing matters beside two people loving each other. She's only 4 years younger than u! So what? i'm 14 too! Aren't u 18? Aren't u supposed to make ur own decision? Age difference doesn't matter that much.
    dude thats alot of A's B's and C's....the ex i wouldnt go for, she already had her chance.. B yea your 18 and shes 14, thats not that bad of an age difference..youd have to convince her parents that you care alot about her, and if they like you they shouldnt mind too much, and girl C, shes girl B's close friend? bad idea, if you choose C over B then you would pronbobly loose B as a friend..so if i was you it would e girl B...
    i think you should go with the one you have most feelings for like who would you save if they were falling down a bridge and you were on a bunji cord you could only save one
    ok well the 14 year old is not mature enough to make decisions about dating which is why her parents dont approve so that leaves her out for 3 to 5 years



    If a is your x that dumped you to go back with her x then is going to dump her x again (making him her xx) to go with her other x again (u) then she is wack and you probably dont want her around



    so i guess that leaves c
    ur a pedophile get someone ur own age

    pick one!!

    choose girl c whatevss
    I would chose girl C seeing that your ex dumped you and now wants to get back with you and girl B is kind of young for you and its king of illegal :) Hope this helps
    Hmm... It sort of seems that you should probably just forget about Girl A, because as far as I've heard, she seems like a little bitchy if she thinks she can dump you for her ex and then come crawling back to you. About Girl B, I know she's younger, but if you do have the strongest feelings for her, but she might not be mature enough to be in a relationship. Taking chances based on what you feel is right usually turns out okay. Since Girl C does not know about them then try giving Girl B a try, give Girl C a chance. That way you wiont have to deal with drama between Girl B And A. But if you do, make sure you are completely honest with Girl C
    well i think girl C because she sounds like what you really want( from what you wrote :)) and the first one dumped you for another guy who was her ex which is just a ***** move. and now she wants you back? i wouldnt trust her. Girl B is just trouble lol( just because of the age difference....but hey if youre really into her, go for it). I think go for C and if that doesnt work out, wait a while and then you can go for B haha.
    I think girl C, comfort her from the way her ex treated her, girl B is a total no! Girl C seems nice but she's too far away, no homo but i'd go with girl A.
    Hey you sound like a nice guy, and coming from a girls perspective I think you should chose who makes you happiest and it will work out.. I wouldn't chose girl A because obviously she has feelings for other guys and thats a bad thing in a relationship. (TRUST ME it wont work) Girl B may be a good friend and she might be mature but if your 18 it could get you in legal trouble (Statitory Rape), especially if her rents dont like you they could file a complaint . As for girl C long distance relationships are hard but it can work depending on how far away you are from her. If i was you i'd go for GIRL C! Its sounds like you already like her alot so it should be a ood relationship! Good luck! :)
    well i sure wish i had as many choices as you. the only two girls i ever tried asking out treated me like ****, and i never even got to asked them out. And any girls that have asked me out weren't very attractive. So i would pick the nicest girl out of them. You would probably get the most success from them.

    How do you know someone has a problem with you?

    I play girls basketball for a college team. I was a freshman and was the only girl who started a few games out of both freshmans + sophmores.



    During practices last season, I always felt like one of the sophmore girls was extra agressive when playing defense with me. I thought it was all in my head, and just thought she was just a hard worker, but I always felt she was a little too agressive. (I dont know) (Also, she doesnt play much at all in the games, and I get a lot more playing time than she does as a freshman)



    But then when the season was over, we had practices. When we had practice scrimages, I would score a lot of shots, and practice my moves and stuff. A couple of times I would score in her face. (I'm not trying to challenge her or anything, I'm just trying to get better)



    But then one time when I drove to the basket, she kind of pushed me out of bounce, and I called a foul. And then she got angry saying you have to stop going the basket out of control, and stop calling fouls. Then I said, but you pushed me? And she said but you were out of control. (I didnt want to argue, because I hate arguing, and I'm not a dramaqueen type of girl). So i got a little angry so I played hard defense on her, then I slapped her (accidently) and she was like Uh FOUL!..and then walked away.



    I felt awkward and didnt know what to do because I dont want problems. I dont want problems with her because I'm going to see her everyday, and like idk i dont want to deal with it!



    Whats the deal with her, and why is she acting like this? Does she have a problem with me? Does she hate me? I rarely have problems with people because I'm not that much of a *****, and I'm more to myself type of girl.How do you know someone has a problem with you?
    Some people are going to like me and some people are going to dislike me,'; he once said. ';I always live by the 50 percent rule 鈥?50 percent of the people are going to like you and 50 percent of the people aren't going to like you. Some people are going to dislike you because you're black; some people are going to dislike you because you're from the South; some people are going to dislike you because you play for the Suns or for the 76ers; some people are going to dislike you because you're Jewish. I mean, someone is always going to dislike you, but you can't concentrate on the negative stuff.';



    by Charles BarkleyHow do you know someone has a problem with you?
    She's A Rival!
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